Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Goodbye Peaches, Hello Tri-Tip

    December 19, Thursday.  I received a text from The Millionaire to the effect that our new family member, Lady Moo, was in labor with our newer family member.  Arriving to the pen late due to extenuating circumstances, I saw that Lady Moo was already somewhat advanced in labor.  However, it ironically happened that this was the third Thursday of the month - the day of the horse auction.  I had plans to take Peaches to a nearby arena to run around and take off the "excess energy" before she was hauled off to auction.  I decided I would make it back in time to see the calf being born, as this was Lady Moo's first born and labor was likely to go long.  The Elf was on hand to oversee everything.  (She has trained and cared for Lady Moo from day one, since day one was the day of my accident and I have been disabled since then.  Lady Moo, in return, loves The Elf devotedly.)

    I was wrong.  Before I arrived at the destination, I received a call.  It was a boy, and I had missed it.  Had it been a girl, she would have had a sweet name such as Buttercup, or Marigold.  She might have had a future of providing creamy milk.  Boys, on the other hand, receive names such as Tri-Tip, Brisket, or T-Bone.  Provided he grows healthy and stout, he will be headed to what some cheekily refer to as freezer camp in a year or two.  The Elf had a unique experience, catching Tri-Tip in her arms as he entered the world, and presenting him to his proud mama.

About two hours into the world.

    Meanwhile Peaches went bye-bye later the same day, and will hopefully fulfill her greatest potential - whatever that may be (on a rodeo bucking string perhaps?).  Daddy recalled to mind that many years ago he had purchased a few 2 year old horses from a ranch as a project to break to ride.  As he worked, he demonstrated to me how to tie them and sack them out, get them used to the saddle and then break them to ride.  The biggest horse was a stout, powerful buckskin.  I think we called him Dun.  He kicked my Daddy's you-know-what.  That horse just wouldn't be broke, under any circumstances.  After too many incidents, including broken bones, Daddy offered him to the nearby stockman as a work horse.

    He found out a year or two later, after good-natured inquiry, that Dun had gone on to rodeo notoriety, having become one of the most famous bucking horses ever after being sold to a rodeo string.  Don't give up, Peaches, you'll find your niche.

    Have I prepared for Jesus sufficiently this Advent?  No.  I never have.  As usual I begin with grand intentions, and end with humbling failure.  It's probably the best place for me.  In fact, it is probably not a failure for me to enter into Christmas having failed at what I believe is holiness.  As far as the heavens are from the earth, are my thoughts from God's thoughts, and most likely my plans from God's plans.  Therefore, it is fitting that I should fail according to my plans.  I shall then lay them aside wait on the Lord, and quietly contemplate His birth.  If He wants me to know what to do, He'll show me.

    I wish all of you the best of Christmas, great joy and great peace, and may you find all happiness in the love of God.  I want to thank all my beautiful friends and family for your friendship and continued love for us from a distance.  You are cherished!
 Blooming succulents in the sun room.  A Christmas surprise.

Monday, December 16, 2013

A Short Apology . . .

    Ok.  I removed my previous post (about a "rogue priest")  because it was uncharitable, and while it felt great at first, I realized it was wrong.  And I'm sorry.  I know the priest in question is a missionary priest and has given his life in sacrifice for the poorest of the poor, and is probably very holy.  I cannot detract his priesthood based on a brief encounter.  To speak irreverently of a minister of the Church is against the First Commandment.

    I love the liturgy.  St. Padre Pio said, "It would be easier for the world to survive without the sun than to do so without the Holy Mass."  I pray that the liturgy is celebrated everywhere with the reverence it deserves, and that adherence to its norms as laid out by the Church (which is the Body of Christ, and His mouthpiece) in her wisdom is observed perfectly in every place, and in every heart.

God bless . . .

 

Sunday, December 1, 2013

It's a wonderful life...


    The landscape has changed rapidly from what it was the last time I wrote.  Two hard freezes occurred, one at 15 degrees and the other at 19 degrees.  With those, the leaves turned dark and fell rapidly from the trees, leaving the pecan clusters dotting the tree branches.  Most of the outer green skins dried up and popped open, revealing the precious nuts inside.  Harvest will most likely wait until next week, however, since there are a few husks that held fast to their greenness, and refused to yield their fruit to the fresh cold air.

    The cotton harvest has been underway for weeks, as evidenced by the stray cotton lining the highways, and the telltale cotton hanging from the mesquite branches which hang a little too close to the road.  Cotton is harvested and then packed tightly into modules – huge rectangular cubicles weighing about 30,000 pounds each – and covered on top by tarps to protect them from any precipitation that may occur.  They are then transported to the cotton gin which is a co-op of the area farmers, losing bits of the fluffy balls on the road and to the grasping mesquite bushes.  Once at the gin they are placed evenly in a large lot to await the ginning process.  The lot is much too large this year, as production is reduced by 2/3 or more due to the prevailing drought.  The gin cleans the cotton, especially removing the nutrient-rich seeds which are embedded deeply in each cotton ball.  After this, it is sold to be used for all the various products in which it is used.  Please look for 100% cotton clothing and bedding – it is far superior to the manmade (plastic) stuff – and it supports farmers! :D


    We had a beautiful two months of attending weddings, one in California in San Diego, the long-awaited wedding of my niece, and one in Santa Fe, New Mexico, of my cousins.  Both are beautiful places, both beautiful weddings.  In Santa Fe we visited the mysterious Chapel of Loretto where a lone carpenter with simple tools built an exquisite staircase to the choir loft and then disappeared.  The staircase, to this day, defies the knowledge of engineering, and is beautifully handcrafted from a type of spruce that has never been found, one that does not even seem to be in existence.  The presence of God is palpable and powerful in this gorgeous chapel, even though it is no longer owned by the Church.

    Next we made a pilgrimage to Chimayo, NM, the “Lourdes of America”.  I will not tell the story here (you can look it up), but I did collect the healing soil for which Chimayo is famous, and I blessed The Millionaire with it, who quickly and suspiciously backed away from my handful of dirt, as did the two younger ones who were with us.  No matter, I took and decided to bless myself instead, signing myself with it, rubbing it on the back of my neck, my chest, and shoulders.  I couldn’t let it go to waste!

    After Chimayo we drove north to Ft. Collins, CO where we had arranged to purchase a horse trailer – a four-horse stock trailer - just what I wanted!  On the way home, we stopped in Veguita, NM, and picked up a cow.  Yes.  A cow.  A lucky cow, that will be calving sometime in a month or so and then give us milk and all the sweet cream we could ever want!

    The day after arriving home I decided that rascally Peaches had gone too long and was in need of at least 3 rides a week to sustain her.  I saddled up and 20 minutes later found myself incomprehensibly looking up at my brother as I gasped in pain.  I couldn't understand what he was saying.  It eventually dawned on me that he told me he was taking me to the hospital.  I wanted to tell him to wait until the pain subsided, maybe I just had the wind knocked out of me, but I couldn’t talk, so I submitted.

    It was terrible.  But it was also wonderful, grace-filled, a gift from God.  I have six broken ribs and a fractured collar bone, which was set with a brace in surgery.  And now here I sit, recovering, not able to do much physically, but with a broadened prayer life and expanded gratitude in being forced to slow down, to sit, and to “know” that He is God.  How I needed this!  Thanks to the prayers of all my friends in the know, I think I probably already feel much better than I should.  I could begin a list of all the blessings that are brought about by this, but it would double the length of this too-long post already!  I do look back with surprise and wonder when I think about how I blessed myself with the miraculous soil of Chimayo only two days before!  Anyway, here are some updates:

    Hot Rod only has one more week of school, after which she will visit our beloved California and relay in person our well-wishes and love on our friends.  She continues to drive faster than her skill level, especially on the dirt bike which she wrecked a few weeks ago and thanks be to God did not wind up like me.  However, she had to be rescued from under the bike and did sustain a sprained knee and some road rash.

    The Elf has been beautifully training our new cow since I am physically unable to participate.  She has gentled her to the point that the cow comes and rubs on us, and loves being regaled with attention.  She also wrote 40,000 words during National Novel Writing month!  Quite a feat, considering the constraints of time she suffered during the last two weeks of my convalescence.


    Dead Eye is becoming ever more the gentleman, and especially is solicitous of me now that I am compromised.  He opens doors, carries everything in sight, and sympathetically asks after me if he hears me groan.  Don’t get me wrong, he was gallant before the accident, too!  He spent some wonderful time being a grip for the upcoming videos filmed by my brother for . . . THE IVEYS!  Yeah!  New album to be released soon!  He also helped in the filming of a commercial.  His talents are broadening.  Do check out www.theiveysmusic.com and visit their Facebook page.  Watch for the future release of their new videos.  Maybe you'll see a surprise!

    The Millionaire has been my knight and so wonderful to me.  He watches over me with great love and care, seeing that my every need is met, and then some.  He also did the lion's share of driving on our road trip and hasn't complained (too much) about the cow.  In fact, I think he's really grown to like her.

    God is so good, and I haven't evening finished counting my blessings (will I ever?).  I saw this today which is so true:
Whenever you feel guilty, even if it is because you have consciously committed a sin, a serious sin, something you have kept doing many times, never let the devil deceive you by allowing him to discourage you.  My beloved, may every fall . . . always become for us a small step toward a higher degree of perfection.  Maximillian Kolbe